Post "P.S.- I Love You"

I just watched "P.S.-I Love You" and this one thing kept buzzing in my head: How can one kiss between two people who barely know each other, be the line between married for life and dying alone? Don't get me wrong i loved the movie, didn't want to kiss it though, but lets go back to the buzzing thing. The perfect kiss to me is bullshit, c'mon you can have that with any ex, but perfect smile, perfect expression, perfect answer, that all narrows it down to a maybe a couple of people in your whole life! The thing is though, that the first kiss is so overrated that you don't see it through anymore. Most people won't give a second chance to a bad first kisser, but they'll give exeptions to womanizers or manizers! The first kiss sounds like a test of hotness to me, and if its so important to get that right, i say fuck the eyes closed bullshit! I mean if you think about it, you're there with the person your atracted to and he or she gets closer to you to kiss, your two brains are getting excited at the same time, your slighty dizzy and really horny, so if you close your eyes its bound to go wrong!